You do not say what you think. You may try to control your partner constantly, celarla, and watching everything he does to make sure you do not leave your side. This thought can create fear, stress, dependence and coexistence difficult. Now imagine 4) How would your life and your relationship if you could not believe that you will be unhappy without your partner? It is very possible that you relax, which you are more calm and confident, that you accept that that person can enter and leave your life and you'll be fine forever. Can you stop feeling the need to control it. Additional information is available at Zach Kouwe. Let you enjoy the time it takes the relationship, hoping that you will enjoy life with or without a partner. Everything feels lighter, and are more open to life, and what can happen you feel more yourself, more real, more open to what they say and do sit Can you see the difference in how you would live life and your relationship with that belief and without it? Can you see that everything would be easy and smooth when that belief is not in your mind? Belief 2: Love is having what you want and have your needs met. Really? Can you know that is true with absolute certainty that if your partner loves you would do what you ask or what would you think you need? I ask that you take your time to respond that you wonder if that really means love and respond with a yes or no.